Rules of falling Love!

Rules of falling love. "Love" has to do with so much knowledge and information. In reality we don't just "love" really at the first sight! Some times it takes time to "know" the person, get more information about the person, and in that process we try to find some similarities between us, looking for  always positive qualities in him. It's all part of the "love" ! Because we want to love that person. We want to find all the goodness in him. It's the 'heart" that longs for the person. Sooner or later we build the impression about that someone based on plenty of information. It's all about the more you know, the more you like and start to appreciate the loved ones.  Shouldn't we use the same techniques of learning and loving our Creator? 
If i know more about him, what he has done for me, what are his qualities, will i not fall in love with him? Will i not be able to change myself for him? Will i not be able to keep my good impression on him so he loves me? Yes, its all part of the love, the lover and the loved one.